"Relearning Loveliness"
- Change needs to be taken slowly. It doesn't happen overnight. Make your choices and start to make small changes and build on that new habit.
- How do you change a habit? By wanting to make a change.
- Binge = bolting from yourself and avoiding discomfort
- Become aware on a daily basis your goals.
- Every binge = a lost opportunity to be with yourself and to break free from your pattern.
- Question the beliefs that lead you to think that it is not OK for you to be happy.
- Sometimes it is necessary to retreach a thing its loveliness. To put a hand on its brow on the flow and to retell it in words and in touch that it is lovely.
- Question the belief that you are not lovely (i.e. always a failure, not loveable, not fixable)
- This process is not an intellectual process.
- When your mind stops you can reach your true being. Tap into essense.
- Know your patterns and you will be able to divert more quickly. You don't have to keep rexploring it.
Some interesting points, especially those about binging. I might check out one of her books, as I am now trying to focus more on the mental/emotional part of weight loss.
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